Deepening: A Libra New Moon Reflection

Happy Libra New Moon, I hope you're finding more harmony within!

For quite a while, I've been playing with an interesting concept - We often think of Forward in a linear sense, moving ahead, making progress, seeing measurable difference based on getting from point A to point B.

I'd like to propose an alternative: Forward = Deeper.

There are so many people seeking progress in a surface way, through constructs and lenses that lack depth and meaning.

We can measure movement through relief, but we know that relief is not lasting.
We can measure progress through societal cues that slip and slide with the times.
We can pretend that we are moving in meaningful ways, when in reality, there is no ground beneath us. We're sliding through sand, or on the hamster wheel, running only in place.

On the other hand, we can measure progress in depth.
On the surface, deepening may not look as impressive. We can’t always see what’s happening in the depths of a per...

Over the years, I’ve dedicated a lot of time and energy to the study of Flow States - that place where everything aligns, where you feel relaxed, present, and moved forward by something greater than your willpower. Flow feels like ease. It's progress without pushing, accomplishment with grace.

And really, isn’t that what we’re all seeking? We want relief from the grind, from forcing things into being. We long to move forward without the struggle, to feel carried, by life, by Love, by our own inner rhythm.

But here’s the truth: just because flow feels effortless when you’re in it doesn’t mean it happens on its own.

There’s a misconception that if we just “choose what feels easy,” we’ll find it. But that’s not quite it. Flow isn’t about escaping effort, it’s about aligning effort with energy.

Finding flow is like walking a fine line. You feel your way into it, one subtle adjustment at a time. Think of it like drawing a bath: too hot and you jump out, too cold and you shrink away. The...

There are moments that are quiet, almost imperceptible, when you realise your intuition has been speaking all along. Maybe it’s a whisper in the body, a flash of knowing, a subtle shift in the air. For most of us, it’s been buried under noise, conditioning, and the rush to “figure it out.” But when you pause, when you listen, something begins to heal, not just in your mind, but in your own nervous system.

Last night, we held the first call in our series, diving deep into Practical Intuition, a healed nervous system, and the boundary shifts needed to make life feel healthy and aligned. Thank you to everyone who joined live and to those catching up with the replay (you can find it on my YouTube channel HERE).

Honestly, I believe that what we covered are among the most important conversations we can have - here’s why:

Many teachings about intuition are tangled with superstition and outdated perspectives. And for good reason - our ancestors (and maybe we, in other lives) were judged, pu...

How disrupting your week could help your mind find order-

This week, I deviated from the norm. And it has made all the difference.

Energetically, it’s been a charged few days (anyone else feeling frustration, anger, defensiveness?). I haven't felt much like myself, and I knew that forcing my usual routine would only deepen the resistance.

Over the years, I’ve learned that pushing too hard may get things done—but at what cost? The quality suffers. The experience suffers. I suffer. There is a fine line between making an effort and allowing the effortless to unfold.

I’ve been listening to Ram Dass talk about the dance between Being and Doing. Even on my best days, my mind wrestles with surrendering fully into Being. The part of me that craves control wants to Do.

But I think there’s an art to moving between the two—a rhythm we spend years, maybe lifetimes, learning to trust.

On Tuesday, I sat in Rosslyn Chapel, channeling and meditating on the year ahead. Two questions came throu...