Still wondering why you can't get a clear answer?

Over the years, across the many courses I've run, I've been asked hundreds of questions about intuition. Today I want to walk you through one of the most common, and I believe, the most important.

Why can't I get a clear answer to the question I'm asking?

If the answer isn't coming through clearly, it's usually one of two things. Understanding these can save you a great deal of time and energy.

1. Your question isn't clear enough.

I've touched on this before, but it's worth returning to. Think about the last time someone asked you a question you couldn't follow, you didn't know how to answer. This week I was interviewed by the wonderful Amala Black for her Original Love Podcast. We were having a great conversation, and she began to ask me a question that grew arms and legs - I found myself writing down notes to keep track of it all. In reality, it was three questions woven together, and I had to unravel what she was really asking before I could begin to answer any part of it. (It w...

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Have you found the magic in your process?

On Sunday evening, I attended an event with Maggie O'Farrell, author of the now very famous Hamnet. I saw the film (emotionally devastating, and entirely worth it!) and knew I wanted to hear her speak about her work and creative process.

Most of the Q&A centred on her new book, Land. It draws loosely on the stories of her ancestors' lives, on deep research into the people and history of Ireland across centuries, and on her own creative flow - pulling it all together, building emotional connection, bringing to life characters you want to get to know.

I really see writing as a kind of magic. And I find it fascinating when real magicians - writers, artists, creatives - can speak openly about how they create without destroying the mystery, or the miracles held within the process.

Towards the end, an audience member asked about the difference between writing a novel and writing a screenplay. She shared that the novel is entirely independent, the words are her's alone, her full responsibi...

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What would your life look like if everything aligned?

Taurus Super New Moon - An Invitation to Come Home

I've been meditating a lot this week, sitting with the weekend ahead. On Saturday, we have a Super New Moon, and I wanted to share a little on the mechanics and the medicine of it, so you can meet it with grounded intention.

A Super New Moon sits closer to the Earth than usual. It pulls at the tides, the water, our emotions. It may feel as though your intuition sharpens. The invitation is to go inward, to set aside the noise and the dramas for a time, and tend to what is needed within you. Let your emotions speak, they carry deep wisdom.

New Moons are dark moons. You won't see this one in the sky. But it's there, and we feel it. What lives invisibly within us gets touched, called, moved. I see this as an invitation to turn from our old triggers and toward our deeper desires. And to consider what you actually want to plant, build, and experience.

This particular New Moon carries something extra. There is a near-perfect alignment of ...

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Navigating your Reality, when the Path Disappears

Lately, I've been thinking a lot about the "pathless path."

The idea is this: there are many paths available to us, paths created by society, hierarchies, and cultural structures. These tend to be well-worn, familiar, and often comforting.

But the known is shifting now, and swiftly. We can't necessarily trust what has worked before to work in the same way again. Much of the world feels chaotic, ungrounded, and unpredictable, and those of us who cling to the familiar are finding ourselves swept away.

This is where we are invited to develop a few skills, virtues, ways of being.

In a world where circumstances can turn on a dime, we're invited to hold things loosely. Whatever we cling to may feel ripped away - though in truth, we are simply being asked to evolve beyond it. This requires a deeper trust in ourselves, a willingness to lean into our greater gifts, and a mindset that is agile and aware.

For me, this is where Intuition steps in.

Our unconscious mind often defaults to what ...

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A Different Way Through the Fire

Who else is feeling the collective energy right now? This week feels different. There’s a strong current of fire moving through, igniting, activating, bringing things to the surface. And my intention for it is this: that it purifies and strengthens. Think forge, not destruction, and refinement, not overwhelm.

Because in the intensity of heat - of burning, shifting, becoming - it can feel as though our intuition becomes less clear. Like heat rising from a hot road, where everything appears wavy, distorted, just out of reach. The edges blur, distance feels uncertain, and we question what we’re seeing, what we’re sensing, what we know.

The Aries energy of this time is often associated with the Warrior. But what I keep being shown is something more nuanced - a transition - not from strength, but from one expression of it into another. From fighter into leader, and from force into sovereignty.

I’ve read that crowns were not only adorned to display wealth, but to bring cryst

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An Intuition issue, or a Trust issue?

This week, I’ve been recording videos, having conversations, attending events, and speaking with the “spiritually curious” about expanding their perspective on what Intuition is, and what it isn’t.

Honestly, it surprises me how many hang-ups, fears, doubts, and misunderstandings still surround something that is, in truth, a profound gift. When I consider how much of ourselves we deny, shut down, or quietly gaslight… it brings up a lot. Some of it reminds me of how I saw myself 20+ years ago. Some of it frustrates me, that in all this time, there still hasn’t been a movement towards a deeper collective understanding.

So let’s talk about those moments when you believed your intuition was wrong, unclear, or untrue. When you wondered if it was anxiety speaking. Whether you were projecting, or if you were simply making it all up.

Now, questioning isn’t a bad thing. Anyone wanting to use their intuition more deeply will meet these edges. Beliefs can muddy the water. Projection can distort perce...

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The Quiet Revolution of Intuition

Aquarius Season + The Quiet Revolution of Intuition

How have you been feeling this week? Entry into Aquarius season has been… interesting. I’ve felt achy, run down (not my favourite state) and yet, it’s brought a gift. I’ve slowed everything down. I’ve moved more deliberately. I’ve listened more closely.

A month or so ago I wrote about the shift from decluttering to rearranging. That’s still unfolding. There are a lot of re’s happening right now: reorganising, revamping, repurposing. Editing, rather than initiating. Refining, rather than forcing.

Aquarius energy is multi-faceted. It can disrupt, rebel, revolt. It can be electric and catalytic. But this year, the revolution feels quieter, more considered - each choice refined, each movement intentional, more grace than grift.

The wider world often feels frantic, aggressive, chaotic. That’s not a coincidence. But within our own minds, hearts, and homes, we still get to choose how change moves through us.

In the lead up to this week,...

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Is Intuition Innate or Cultivated?

I’ve been watching the final season of Stranger Things (don’t worry - no spoilers!). In one scene, a conversation unfolds about the difference between a Wizard and a Sorcerer.

The distinction they make is simple and profound:
A Wizard studies, practices, and develops their gifts.
A Sorcerer is born with them - they are the gift.

And immediately I realised -this is the same question I’m asked again and again about intuition:

Are intuitive gifts something we’re born with, or something we cultivate through practice?

I’ve been living inside this question for most of my life.

I was born highly sensitive, deeply tuned in, though I didn’t have language for it until much later. Looking back, I can see how often I felt what others were feeling beneath the surface. I perceived what wasn’t being said. I spoke to people who “weren’t there.” My inner and energetic world was vivid, porous, and alive.

My perception is dialed up more than most, but I don’t believe that makes me special.
I believe i...

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The Grace of Preparation: Entering Your Spiritual Work with Conscious Care

I’ve been asked a few times how to prepare for a spiritual course, event, or ceremony. I love questions like this, because the answer always reaches further than we think. It’s not just about one experience; it’s about how we live, how we enter, how we meet what’s about to unfold.

In the healing realm, I’ve seen people rush into experiences unprepared - wide open, hearts racing, spirits on fire. They call it excitement or following the heart, and maybe it is. But sometimes, it’s also adrenaline, a little drama, the thrill of pushing at the edges of what’s safe or known.

And that’s where things can get messy.

In spiritual circles, we talk about spiritual emergencies, moments when someone feels cracked open, undone. Physically, emotionally, mentally… they feel as though they're falling apart. There’s often some fallout, withdrawal from daily life, tension in relationships, schedules derailed. These moments bring to the surface what’s shaky, what’s ready to change. And that’s not wrong...

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