Wrestling with Life - and Learning to Release

control eclipse equinox Mar 13, 2026

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about healing, timing, and the mysterious way things unfold in our lives. Why certain insights arrive when they do. Why something we have wrestled with for months, years, sometimes decades, suddenly loosens its grip.

As we move into the final stretch of eclipse season, and begin the phase of integration, many people are noticing small yet meaningful shifts. Synchronicities appearing where there were none before. Patterns becoming visible. A quiet awareness emerging in places that once felt dense or confusing. It is one of the things I love most about eclipse portals - they rearrange things.

Over the years I have witnessed, again and again, that something people have been pushing against with great effort can suddenly fall into a new alignment. Not because the problem disappeared, but because the relationship to it changed. The pushing softened. The grip loosened. The body exhaled. What once required wrestling begins to respond to allowi

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The deep inhale, before the dive

Tomorrow, we move through the portal of the first eclipse, and I wanted to share a little guidance to help you navigate this moment in time.

I often find that the day before an eclipse feels like a deep inhale. There can be anticipation, curiosity, sometimes a flicker of nervousness. It’s the moment before you dive into new water.

If you’re anything like me, you might dip a few toes in first, testing for a shock. You check how clear the water is, how far you can see, whether it’s calm or choppy. You glance at the sky. You assess the weather. Not because you need control, but because you want to feel prepared for the plunge.

When we spend time before an eclipse meditating, setting intentions, examining our desires, and playing with possibility, this is what we are doing. We are preparing ourselves for an experience that is not entirely controllable - the weather will do what it does, the tides will move as they move - but we ground ourselves in our own ability to navigate what arises...

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Which is calling - Temperance, the Empress, or Mastery of Emotion?

I pulled cards for my meditation ritual this morning and wanted to share the messages that came through. They feel perfect for our time now, in the approach to the Pisces Lunar Eclipse, drawing us deeper into intuition and flow.

The first was the Temperance card. Temperance is something I once resisted - the idea of walking the middle path never sat well with me. I’ve always loved immersing myself fully in my passions. I love to laugh loud, to obsess over what calls me. But over the years, I’ve found wisdom in Temperance. Because it isn’t the “boring middle.” It calls us to move out of extremes, of judgment, addiction, rage, illusion, and into something more whole, more complete. It invites us to choose the very best of each polarity. To embody the divine within both the feminine and the masculine. To create space for rest, play, study, and discipline. The grace of Temperance is not in flattening ourselves into moderation - it is in rising higher, weaving harmony into brilliance.

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Are you prepared to embrace destiny?

Eclipse season is here - a portal of transformation, a call to alignment, an invitation to meet your destiny with open arms.

I love this time of year. Not just because I know we can heal, shift, and evolve at any moment, but because eclipses have a way of amplifying everything. They turn up the volume on what’s been whispering beneath the surface. They move things forward -ready or not. And if we work with this energy, rather than against it, we can accelerate our growth in ways that feel almost magical.

So, how do we prepare? How do we move through this with clarity, courage, and grace? I wanted to share a few of my own practices and rituals that help me navigate these powerful cosmic tides. This isn’t a rigid checklist, it is simply an offering. Take what resonates, leave the rest, and shape a practice that truly serves you.

Find Your Focus

Clarity is power. Choose one key area of life to focus on. The temptation is to bring everything to the table, to fix all the things at once....

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Ready for the next Eclipse Portal?

Hello beautiful beings,

I hope you’re feeling empowered in the energetic shifts as we move towards Spring!

As I reflected on my offerings and the ways I love to support you, one thing was clear—The Eclipse Package has been a powerful and transformative experience for so many over the past few years. Bringing it back for this season felt like an easy and exciting YES!

 

Our next Eclipse Season is fast approaching, and if you’re feeling the pull to work 1:1 with me during this powerful time, now is the moment to say yes!

For a limited time, I’m offering a 30% reduction on my usual pricing for a special Eclipse Package designed to help you navigate this potent transformation.

Here’s what’s included:

  • 4 private 75-minute sessions (held between 18 Feb – 18 April)
  • 2 live group online events aligned with the Virgo + Aries Eclipses
  • Total cost: ÂŁ444 (normally ÂŁ620 – saving you ÂŁ176!)

This offer is only available to commit to through 13 March.

Eclipse seasons are my favorite time t...

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How do you calm the storms within you?

Hello beautiful beings, I hope you are all well! I am currently in the southeast of the USA, recently weathering the storms that moved through the region last week. I was fortunate enough to be in Savannah (tornadoes, wind, and lots of rain), but feel grateful for the land, the city, and the good fortune of being in an area less affected by the storms (and many thanks to Abby and Jenny for looking after me so well!).

Those further north had a very different experience, normally not affected by these coastal storms, but now having to suspend plans, strip back to the basics of life, and simply look after themselves and their neighbours. These storms often remind me of what is necessary and important, a reminder to relinquish what is not needed in the moment.

 

Our second eclipse of the season, this time a Solar Eclipse in Libra, feels aligned with the storms in many ways. Whenever I meditate on its energy, I am shown the relationship between the Sun and Moon, Masculine and Feminine, a...

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What does true Surrender feel like?

Hello beautiful beings, I hope you are swimming gracefully with the Pisces Moon!

The moon is now in Pisces, with the eclipse less than 24 hours away! In the UK, the eclipse window will be in the middle of the night (1:41-5:47), but the moon will remain in Pisces until 10:24 tomorrow morning. So I would encourage you to hold any healing meditations or ceremonies before it moves into Aries. You're welcome to join us tonight (and repeat if you desire!)

Energetically, we are swimming in Water (but held gently by Earthly Virgo). So the time for healing, evolving, and unfolding is now...

But instead of feeling rushed or pushed to fit it all in, I am going to encourage you to pause, relax, surrender, release.

Imagine that you are in a large body of warm, calm, gentle water. There is movement, but the water is buoyant, it holds you, supports you, and allows you to move and flow at your own pace. Your body can totally relax, your mind is at ease, you know that you can trust what is around y...

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Are you willing to make the journey towards your Vision?

Hello beautiful beings, I hope that you are feeling the benefits of yesterday's Pisces New Moon, AND the beginning of Eclipse Season! The energy of change is palpable, you can feel it around you, and within. This is such a powerful time to focus on your healing, growth, and potential for change.

But first...

It may feel easy to get excited about the end result, the outcome you desire, the prize at the end of the journey. But when we consider what it takes to get there, we can feel daunted by the journey itself.

The journey of change (not TO change), is one that requires courage, a willingness to face our fears, and to surrender the inner conflicts and judgements that are preventing the outcomes we seek.

It is a moving process, a cycle of endings before the beginnings, and time within the liminal, where we may not have all of the answers, direction, support, or fulfillment that we believe would comfort us, or keep us 'safe' along the way.

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Can you create without weapons, change without fear?

Hello beautiful beings, I hope that you are embracing the Peaceful Warrior within you during this eclipse season!

The question that keeps coming through ask us: How can we fight without fighting?

Throughout this entire eclipse season we have been immersed in the themes of Mars: loyalty, dedication, and of finding a Mission that is Worthy.

When Mars, or we, are in our shadow, we may find that we want to fight, argue, be Right. Our anger may flare up, frustration tries to move us forward, to find a focus to follow. We know that the path of anger is one that is detrimental, that brings out our weaknesses, and leaves us feeling exhausted, flat, defeated.

But if we can identify and understand the Purpose within us, we can embody the gifts of these transits, and live as the inner 'Guru' that we truly are.

The Guru is not one that seeks worship, praise, or disempowerment. The Inner Guru leads us to the Divine, Soul, it takes our prayers to God/Source, so that we can abide with the Soul o...

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What is beginning to bloom inside of you? 

Hello beautiful beings, I hope that you are enjoying the eclipse energy, and feeling grounded by Taurus season! 

Because we are between eclipses, I have been doing a lot of healing and meditating on what is evolving within me now, and ways that I am being prepared for the next 6 months and beyond. 

The image/message I keep receiving is on expansion of energy, and allowing it to  move beyond my own contained space, and into the further collective, and our evolution within humanity.

Pluto is now in Aquarius, which connects us with the wider world, and changes that shape a generation. This pulls us out of our smaller issues, and shines light on the collective, so that we are able to heal, not only for ourselves, but also for the wider world, the planet, and everything on this earth. 

I've been shown the growth of flowers and trees over time, and how nature builds, not from reaction and pain, but from a place of higher intelligence and understanding. And we can grow and bloom as a flow...

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